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  • Societal problems and a conversation on Indian flatbreads…

    Societal problems and a conversation on Indian flatbreads…

    Name an attraction or town close to home that you still haven’t got around to visiting

    Hey…

    I hope all of you are doing well…!

    A Saturday it is and my eyes opened at 7:26 yet again I don’t know what is going on but my eyes seem to open again earlier than my schedule now twice in a row;

    But it’s good for me as I now have more time to do what I want and need to get things done sooner than before…!

    This Saturday morning came to me with some surprises and some questions;

    A friend of my sister, practicing law, was teased by a senior lawyer under whom she’s working, she told all of this to my sister and she hasn’t picked up any call from her past 2 days;

    I have told(my sister) to pay her a visit and if she’s not comfortable she can visit our home and talk all about it to her, and discuss the matter in depth to her…!

    If men could keep it in our pants, this world would be a much better place…!

    —

    Another one is a problem regarding my nephew;

    He is showing the behavior of someone who is acting really scared all the time and calls their parents on little things at school…!

    His behavior has drastically changed and has caused all of us move in panic and look for solutions all along…!

    We advised to let the school’s counsellor take a look and guide them to take a proper course of action;

    And she told us to look for a therapist(we don’t call it a psychologist because that makes us look coo-coo, an inherent trait that some of us Indians carry…)

    The therapist came to a conclusion that he saw something like a scary movie even after he was told not to and advised to go play with children in the other room;

    He himself sat there and it alternated something in him causing him to be paranoid about that later in a few days…!

    Right now he’s recovering as a few sessions take place and he will be coming to stay with us on Sunday if possible…!

    I’ll let you guys know how it goes…!

    Coming back to the prompt

    An attraction or a town close to home I haven’t visited…!

    There’s a place called MURTHAL , I’m pretty sure all of you have heard it before;

    And it’s ridiculously famous for its paranthas(flatbread with filing in it), served with white butter and creamy lassi…!

    People traveling between Delhi and chandigarh often make a pit stop there to have the said delicacy…!

    The only thing is paranthas are available everywhere, in Delhi which has a street called (परांठे वाली गली) paranthe wali gali…

    An entire street is dedicated to them as there are shops both on the left and right which sell paranthas with the same white butter, lassi and subzi(vegetable curry) too…!

    Is it worth the hype, I’ll let all of you know if I am fortunate enough to go there or pay a visit to the place myself in an update…!

    For the time being, we will have what we have at home and call it a day…😭😂

    Cheers 🥂

    Love Waakiye

  • A deep question and sincere apologies to our pets…

    A deep question and sincere apologies to our pets…

    If you could make your pet understand one thing, what would it be?

    Hey…

    I hope all of you are doing well…

    A not so cold Thursday morning it is, honest to G0d I slept in shorts and a single T and even then I was feeling hot in the blanket so you know what I did; I put one of my legs outside and the rest of my body was in the blanket…

    Haha 🤣

    The morning walk was brisk and good and I met the street dogs as usual and I will remember to carry some dog biscuits for them tomorrow morning…!

    Also;

    I wrote a question on my WhatsApp status and got good answers too,

    It was

    What counts as a fulfilling marriage to you…?

    And I got soo many responses;

    it was crazy to jus keep up with them…

    It would be great if I could get some answers so I can come up with a post late tonight about this topic as I’m working on it right now…!

    A fulfilling marriage indeed, is it supposed to be fulfilling according to you…?

    Coming back to the prompt

    Making your pet understand one thing…!

    It’s such a beautiful prompt that all of the pet owners have something that they want to let their pets(well in some cases their children) known…!

    They want to make them understand that they are loved,

    And basic things like you shouldn’t poop in the house like the couch or the carpet, outside would be good …!

    We go to work to earn money for treats and the shoes that we own aren’t toys because they cost an arm and a leg maybe the whole left side(considering the amount of shoes my dogs have chewed till this date…)

    For me,

    The most important thing would be a dual question…!

    The first would be,

    What was the dream in which you started to shake which happens once every blue moon…?

    I’d like to decipher and protect them and let the entire world know how can we help them and prevent it…!

    It was a dream and dreams are not real is what I’d like to make them understand, and they are safe within this warm house and in our embrace…!

    Another one would be something that is selfish on all our part(Most of our part…)

    We(each of us pet owners) would like to apologise to them, for pulling them away from their mothers…!

    This is a guilt that we all carry in our subconscious, I know;

    Well one of my dogs is a rescue because their mom passed to the world beyond this one and she left her child infront of our door and in the morning, and we found her breathing her last breath infront of us because she was poisoned by someone…!

    Cruel world…!

    So we took her in and embraced her as a part of our family, and she lives happily with us…!

    These two questions(one question and another statement) are something that I’d definitely ask/tell them…!

    Cheers 🥂

    Love Waakiye 🤍

  • Putting my share in at work and exploring the name Waakiye

    Putting my share in at work and exploring the name Waakiye

    Write about your first name: its meaning, significance, etymology, etc.

    Hey…

    I hope all of you are doing well…!

    A long day it was yesterday, I was able to complete the job that I had at my hand yesterday and start the next one a little bit…!

    Maybe I will end it today itself ( I hope so…)

    And this day was a good one, I went out for a walk and saw many a things like birds and street dogs, which I petted just before returning home and thoroughly washing my hands…!

    All in it seems like a good morning and I hope the rest of the day goes the same way…!

    Coming back to the prompt

    My first name it’s meaning, significance and etymology…

    Well it’s a tricky one because I intentionally plan to keep it hidden and people to know me by this name only;

    Which is

    Waakiye

    I can go deeper into the name that I chose for myself because that is something I wanted to be known by and it resonates with me more…

    And in an Indian household your actual name is used very less; all the time you are called by a short name or how we usually call people around us…

    For Indian users they know what I’m talking about, but for those viewing from outside,

    A pseudonym like(bhai, bhen, beta, oh hello) translations(brother, sister,daughter, son, hello!)

    Sometimes a short form of your name is used, heavily butchered is a sense that strays away from your actual name;

    That’s why you will see that some don’t have an attachment to their names…

    —

    It might seem to you that waakiye name is incomplete but in a sense it displays duality in a single word…

    • Waak’ye(वाक्य) which means a sentence in my native language Hindi…
    • Waak’ya(वाक़या) which means A happening maybe an incident, an accident or an event that took place somewhere…

    Both of them being significant words in our native language because when we string these words together we form a sentence which gets our feelings and thoughts across each other,

    Just like I am penning all of this and it will reach you once I upload and you get to read all of it…!

    Cheers 🥂

    Love Waakiye 🤍

  • Monday blues and the leaders that represent us

    Monday blues and the leaders that represent us

    What makes a good leader?

    Hey…

    I hope all of you are doing well…!

    Another Monday is upon us all;

    And by pushing ourselves in a direction that guides us towards a future that’s better for us would be the best possibility…!

    But,

    Not all days are good ones, some days you just exist and some days you just want to disappear into thin air but those days demand more of you every time that happens…!

    Haven’t we all been there…?

    (Khair…)

    Those days are a part of the life and its phases;

    So we have to endure them too with all our might and just like we laugh and shed tears of happiness on our happy days, likewise we just turn silent and embrace those sad days too;

    We have to, there isn’t a choice, if there is, do let me know…!

    Coming back to the prompt

    What makes a Good leader…?

    Someone with a spine…!

    The entire prompt can be summed up in the line above…!

    Haha,

    If it was so easy we wouldn’t have these speeches, protests and many talks of propaganda and making people fight on the basis of religion(or their religious beliefs…)

    Someone who works for those who brought them into power, and the fear that the same can pull them down once should remain within their heart and mind…!

    A grounded approach and a good sense of self including reading the whole room as they walk in is a must;

    Because they represent us on a scale that exists beyond just the people who brought them into power;

    They now represent us on a scale that whole world can view and even their single loose comment brings shame onto us and sets an example of how tolerable we are with that we let them speak…!

    Accountability of their actions and how they plan to work for the people and bring some change into the working of the government that sparks change into the life of the people well not directly, but maybe in an indirect sense like supporting industrial sector and the agricultural sector which form the backbone of the country…

    Contrary to the types of leader we have in power these days, we would love to have the polar opposite of what we have in power these days…!

    A long thought to ponder about isn’t it…?

    Cheers 🥂

    Love Waakiye 🤍

  • Lohri celebrations and ways to communicate…!

    Lohri celebrations and ways to communicate…!

    In what ways do you communicate online?

    Hey…

    I hope all of you are doing well…!

    Yes, a Lohri update is due and I plan on doing that here itself because a lot of it was extended late until 12 am and I usually go to sleep by 11 or 11:30 pm at night…!

    It was a usual work day and I returned home around 9 pm after making a pit stop to buy milk and some other daily household supplies…!

    As soon as I reached home I assembled the bowl in which we put all of the stuff to offer it to the flame that we light earlier…

    These were the main Ingredients that we bought I know there are a lot of varieties and somewhere within the mix are hidden poha(flattened rice) and til(sesame seeds)…

    We bought all of these things above; if I were to explain rewdi it would be a crisp brittle candy made out of sugar or jaggery coated with sesame seeds…!

    After putting it in the bowl we started to prepare the actual bonfire…!

    We took a deep dish in which people mix cement, and turned it into a hack of a bonfire because the place around is surrounded by marble and a few years back it actually broke the bonfire as it got heated up real quick and cooled down as the temperature reached 5 degrees celsius the next morning…

    The base of it is made using a cloth in which was wrapped camphor and we used matches to light it and thankfully the wood that we had were dry as a bone they lit up real quick…!

    A few additional participants this Lohri…!

    Our dog a beagle he was an active participant chewing on the peanuts and popcorn, he really liked rewdi and went to each one is us to have one…!

    A pic when the initial wood caught on fire…!

    And when the wood caught on fire we took seven rounds around it while we put sesame seeds in it;

    We took a handful of it and walked around the fire while putting it in the fire bit by bit until the rounds completed…!

    And as soon as the seven rounds were over we took both handful of the rewdi, popcorn and peanuts and ate some of it and put the rest gradually in the fire…!

    After that we sat around the fire by putting chairs and took the warmth all within us as we snacked on the tri-mix until we were joined by our neighbour and they sat with us and we talked for hours upon hours about life and happening…!

    Yes the litter around is of the tri mix and the flames were roaring more than usual…!
    One of our dogs a beagle who enjoyed the warmth and snacks from the hands that fed him…!
    Another one of our dogs, a street dog that we rescued and took in; looking up at us with those eyes in a hope that they will grant her with some peanuts…!
    I don’t think you can see it but we did put in a few potatoes wrapped in foil; Do let me know if you can find all five of them…!

    Coming back to the prompt

    Which I almost forgot about…!

    In what ways do I communicate online…?

    Well, communication should happen that’s what matters to me we can talk over text, maybe direct message, WhatsApp, telegram, Instagram chat and so much more more…!

    Any way that feels comfortable to the other person is suitable for me;

    I used to chat on discord with people who formed a group after an app that I was regular on shut down…!

    I prefer to discuss all of it on call because of my business nature, but there are some things that happen over text and I respect the other person’s boundaries too…!

    (Because I’ve been on both the sides…!)

    A meaningful conversation happens any-way when we begin to talk;

    The only problem is that I cannot have a conversation to kill time or pass it just because I’m bored or they’re bored…!

    Maybe that is something that I’d have to look for improving in myself,

    But other than that,

    I’m almost all times open to converse even on topics that spark fear…!

    (**An edit before uploading aren’t we having a conversation here too…?)

    What was left after the night…!

    Cheers 🥂

    Love Waakiye 🤍

  • A festival that we will celebrate this evening and a memorable trip…!

    A festival that we will celebrate this evening and a memorable trip…!

    Think back on your most memorable road trip.

    Hey…

    I hope all of you are doing well…!

    It’s a Tuesday and the second day of hard-work is upon all of us;

    I’m happy for today because on top of being a Tuesday we are going to celebrate a festival called Lohri today;

    What is Lohri if you might ask…?

    It’s a panjabi festival celebrated to make the end of winter, in a sense as the days start to get longer(I mean the daylight);

    It also marks a new year for all of us, and we honor the staple crops like wheat (which is a basic necessity in all of the Indian households) which is sown at the year end and gratitude is expressed to Mother Nature for letting us plant and in return expect a good yield…!

    What happens during the actual festival is that we purchase peanuts, popcorns, rewdi, laddu(s), gud patti, and many more things the day before or the same day;

    (Well most people don’t purchase it on the same day as the footfall is too much and a lot of time is wasted…)

    And we light a bonfire(well not with butane or any fluids that can help us catch fire easily; but with Kapoor(camphor), because it’s a cultural event that happens…!

    We use dried up woods that we can buy or take out of our stock and arrange them in the form of a pyramid and using matches we start the fire and only use camphor to bring it to full flame…!

    And when that happens we gradually take turns around the fire, usually 7 times while we put the peanuts, popcorns and rewdi in the fire as an offering to the fire G0d and asking for their blessings in our life by keeping us energetic and away from foes all around the year…!

    A lot of chatter happened on the festival today;

    Well, I’m going to make an upload later this evening capturing all that happens during the festival…!

    Coming back to the prompt

    Most memorable road trip

    It was the year 2021,

    And a friend of mine planned a trip up north in the mountains somewhere;

    At the end it was me, my sister, my best friend, my best friend’s friend and one of my cousins;

    We had such a blast there, it was because all of us were naive and it was one of the first road trips that we did;

    We went to Ambala and got a car(with a driver) that drove us to Narkanda, a place that was the most beautiful and that was one of our first trips together and the first time I saw snowfall…!

    It was memorable so much so that we invented a drink which we continue to drink the whole trip and still remember to this day…!

    We took green apple rum, because that is what we found affordable at that time and we took Mountain Dew;

    And we downed drinks after drinks until the bottles were empty, and we also had a bonfire there which gave us warmth from the outside too…!

    A trip that still lives in the back of our minds every time we remember it…!

    I’ll see you again this evening with upload of the festival…!

    To good times

    Cheers 🥂

    Love Waakiye 🤍

  • A stranger guiding your life…!

    A stranger guiding your life…!

    Come up with a crazy business idea.

    Hey…!

    It’s a Sunday,

    Let that realisation set in…!

    Yup, the fun is over and it’s the day that you procrastinate that having just the weekend is not enough , we need at-least three days as a weekend,

    No, I don’t mean having 4 working days,

    I mean there should be 8 days in a week, I know it’s a crazy idea but, imagine you logged of at work and went to a pub or planned to hang out with your friends, meeting them over drinks,

    And if you’re sober A better option would be going with them to explore a new restaurant or visiting an art gallery with them…

    You do that on a Friday evening and do all the chores on a Saturday; if you’re not hammered enough (then you can do that on a Sunday…)

    And now, instead of crying that you weren’t able to do anything; you have a whole another day, to do what you actually wanted to do…!

    As I’m typing this, it seems like an outrageous idea for daily workers and those working in hospitality or behind counters because an additional day that they have to work would for sure break their backs…!

    So, for now this seems like an impossible idea but not for long…!

    Coming back to the prompt

    A crazy business idea here

    You know how people are dependent on technology, like you’re reading this on a device, maybe a pc, laptop, tablet or even your phone…!

    And you’re hooked on it for hours upon hours, and no one can get you off it, maybe your parents have already dozed off but you aren’t able to so you get up, leaving your phone and stare at the night sky,

    And there aren’t any stars even the moon like you used to see when you were a little kid, maybe the level of pollution is too high and you don’t have anyone to talk about how you’re feeling…!

    So you call us on our number where a person who will discreetly come within a few minutes, and take you to out for tea or coffee no matter what the time is and they will drive you too…!

    Have tea with you and hear all of your problems and try to find optimum solutions;

    It would not be a subscription based because not all the time you need this sort of support, but that system would be available for long term users…!

    I hope I have cleared most of the people who were here to copy the idea or used ChatGPT to generate their ideas…!

    Additional filter

    It would be complex and crazy at the same time, a person or a guide would take you back in time to your childhood or some time before(this is a critical piece of information…)

    And you’d see the life of your parents before you were born, and how they lived their lives,

    And for an extra charge they’d let you explore your hereditary path, letting you trace your origin back to maybe a 3 or 4 generations(nothing more than that…)

    Anything more than that and it becomes an anomaly that all of the scientists who are looking for a single being that started all of our origin…

    And they are there to give you an experience that you could never ever achieve because after a lot of consideration this idea comes to you that you need to be aware of your lineage…!

    I know it’s a crazy idea for now, but we are not far from the time by that ai explodes exponentially and lets us form technology that can help us achieve this dream in our near future…!

    Well that’s it for a Sunday morning because it’s 7:30 in the morning for me and I started to think about writing this at 6 in the morning…!

    Cheers 🥂

    Love Waakiye 🤍

  • A billboard promoting mental health…!

    A billboard promoting mental health…!

    If you had a freeway billboard, what would it say?

    Hey…!

    I hope all of you are doing well …!

    There’s something that I want to try,

    I don’t know what time zone all of you are in but, my last post which I made by sheer accident late at night got many likes and views,

    So I’m trying something that makes absolutely no sense right now, but nothing hurts if it gives the content that I write a boost…!

    Well,

    When it will be uploaded,

    Most of my day would be already over,

    And I’d be home probably trying to have dinner or already in my bed that I cleaned this morning trying to sleep…!

    Coming back to the prompt,

    A freeway billboard(first time I’m hearing this because there are no such things here in India…)

    But I guess it would be either promoting my business or this writing work that I do;

    I know there are many billboards that also play videos;

    Maybe I could make an advert to promote safe driving by making an ad that tells to not drink and drive;

    Or,

    Another one would be to be on a proper sleep before driving because that causes a lot of accidents ;

    It wouldn’t truly be mine without having something in writing that separates my content from others;

    So it would be catchy;

    Like-

    One of my Instagram posts

    Like this one (⬇️)

    And this would be in an auto shuffle if it’s a working billboard or it would be collapsed into a single one when it is needed…!

    I know it wouldn’t be an immediate hit,

    But it would linger enough to make people search it,

    Maybe click on the link and watch the whole post…!

    That’s exactly how I feel…!

    With that being said it would be a great thing to see and look at,

    And I’d click my photo standing under it too,

    And it’s going to make people around me proud too…!

    A whole billboard belonging to me,

    I’d call it a dream come true…!

    Until next time…!

    Cheers 🥂

    Love Waakiye 🤍

  • An unusual coffee date…!

    An unusual coffee date…!

    Extremely tiresome it was as I was returning home,

    Gruelling hours put in a job that made my life miserable,

    And I hate myself for being stuck in a rut,

    That made me question the choices that left me in such a place;

    Home was still a few hours away,

    As I stood at that light waiting for it to turn green,

    So that I could drive to an empty home,

    Eat the food and maybe try to sleep in early,

    But I knew I was kidding myself;

    As I looked around,

    I found a rustic cafe,

    And from the see-through partially tinted windows I saw,

    I saw a set of eyes,

    Those eyes scanned the world running away from it;

    As I stared into those,

    They looked like pools of honey in the warm light of the cafe,

    After a while,

    Our eyes matched and she stared back at her cup,

    After looking at the empty seat she stared back outside;

    A stranger’s eyes were better than staring at an empty seat they thought,

    So, I made a U-turn,

    Parked my car and went into the cafe,

    As our eyes met,

    She looked at the chair in front of her and those eyes told me to take a seat;

    As I sat,

    And placed an order of flat white while she sipped on her coffee,

    It was supposed to be a date but he ditched me,

    Something came up,

    “Of course it does…”

    But I’m grateful for that;

    A few things came to our office too,

    That’s the sole reason I stayed late and left at such an odd hour,

    As she took another sip,

    The waiter brought me my flat white;

    Before I could,

    She told me to wait a moment,

    Because they serve it extremely hot,

    On sipping I burnt my lip and tongue,

    But I played it off;

    As she stared at me,

    Thinking it didn’t hurt,

    But deep down she knew it did,

    And enquired about it,

    I tried to refuse but my face told her the truth;

    In that moment of laughter and cheerfulness,

    She told me,

    “It feels good that she was ditched now..”

    As I let out a little laughter,

    And told her,

    “Maybe things do happen for good…”

    Like me returning from my 9-to-5 job at 8:30 at night;

    “You still have it well,

    I used to work where they forced us to work overnight” she told me

    There we were,

    Trauma dumping,

    laughing at each other’s miseries,

    Letting out a few laughs,

    And then sipping on our coffees;

    As it was our last sip,

    Out of nowhere I wanted to do a toast,

    As I raised my cup,

    And held our fate hostage;

    “Cheers on being ditched, Yet finding someone to have a coffee with so late at night…!”

    A laughter then another,

    As she shed a few tears thinking about her fate,

    And thanked me for making her night one to remember…

    As we walked outside,

    A ride waited for her that was supposed to take her home,

    She shared her number and told me to call her when I reached home,

    And after G0d knows how many years,

    I waited,

    And waited to reach home…!

    -Fin-

    A short story I witnessed and expanded on today as I sat at the coffee table…!

  • In a Loud World, Find Someone Who Listens

    In a Loud World, Find Someone Who Listens

    What is the greatest gift someone could give you?

    Hey…

    I hope all of you are doing well…!

    It’s another Sunday and I hope you went to bed sooner than you expected;

    You won’t believe the response that I got from people they believed that it would be better to just stay in, spend some time with their family or stay indoors maybe with a friend after grabbing a bottle, sharing it and crashing at their place or letting them crash at your place;

    This was more of a response I got;

    Some were like my parents aren’t home so I will spend the night with my boyfriend/girlfriend and there were a few who decided to go out to drink or have food…!

    A wild change has been brought by the year 2026 into the lives of people that live around us;

    Maybe a change was indeed needed, to be self introspective and knowing who is right and who to keep alongside you and people are doing that this year;

    Filtering and cutting their circle to a few good people instead of a bunch of people who show up just because they get a free treat out of you…!

    Coming back to the prompt;

    What would be the greatest gift someone could ever give me…?

    For me it would be their Trust and Genuine presence;

    Imagine knowing someone and you fully trust them with your secrets, your life and anything that goes on in it;

    And when something goes wrong they show up to put you in your arms and gently bring you from a scary place back into this world;

    I really have to thank the almighty for putting someone like that in my life;

    They have been a sort of pillar in my life that I can take support of when nothing else is going right and they also guide me when nothing is going right in my life;

    One of the most important things;

    They become a place where I can freely say out things without being judged and they let me know when I’m in the right headspace or not;

    And they always listen to me keenly whenever or whatever I have to speak about;

    The last part is extremely important;

    And there aren’t many who just listen to you, because this is a fast paced world and everyone has their priorities,

    But can you imagine having someone like that…!

    I’m extremely blessed…!

    Also this goes both ways,

    If you want to be with a person who has all of this qualities, you will have to be one such person beforehand;

    By being someone like that before you will find yourself in a place where you will help people out too by hearing them and providing them with comfort and then you will find yourself in a place where you are surrounded by many such people who are like that…!

    With that being said,

    Their trust and genuine presence in your life would be the optimum answer for this prompt…!

    Take it slowly it’s a Sunday morning, I know you are going to wake up late and then contemplate your day maybe your life later;

    But,

    Find someone to talk to, a genuine connection;

    The comments box are free here…! 😁

    Cheers 🥂

    Love Waakiye