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Hey…

I hope all of you are doing well…

These are the ten things that I believe to be absolutely certain it will happen or will affect our future happenings…

1. Whatever you’re going through,
   unless you make an effort to get up and move forward,
   try and struggle to better yourself each and every day,
   you’ll be in a place (Not physically but mentally) better…
   
2. Your hard work will be paid off,
   if its sincere and that doesn’t involve cutting corners and stepping on someone,
   (Even if you tell others you’re not affected by it,
   a set of eyes see you,
   and see the misery you pushed onto someone to be where you are..)
   
3. There will be an end of you,
   end of the time that you’re staying in,
   end of all the lives that are dependent on you,
   end of all who you look up to,
   end of all those who look up to you too,
   ending is already planned well before your arrival,
   so,
   make it worth the while,
   and appreciate it all…
   
4. All the things that you feel are real,
   there are times when your subconscious hints you to do something,
   sometimes it tells you not to,
   and more you come into tune with this inner version of you,
   better it will be for you…
   
5. There is a need for you to have connections with people,
   it might feel that you are doing this for your benefit,
   or it might feel like they’re doing it for their benefit,
   but,
   when the need occurs,
   take a fall,
   and let them be the cushion that can soften it,
   but that doesn’t mean you can run amok if they’re hurting,
   you have to be there for them too,
   plus,
   you need some of these for testifying for you if something bad happens,
   and give you a clean chit…
   
6. Have a few friends,
   you need them…!
   they are absolutely necessary,
   have strict rules and guidelines and push them through,
   and if they still stand with you,
   through thick and thin,
   they’re there for you to stay with you forever,
   (That doesn’t mean it cannot happen to you,
   they’re going to test you too,
   and of you aren’t available for them,
   you will lose them too…)
   
7. Be there for your immediate family,
   your father,
   Mother brother and sisters if you have any,
   they are your crux,
   and if you aren’t available for them,
   you definitely won’t have time for anyone,
   because they are the ones who make and break you from the very core…
   
8. Have an emergency fund set up,
   at least 6 to 12 months of fund set up separately,
   which you should not use on the regular,
   but during emergencies only,
   (I know this seems impossible for some,
   but it has to start somewhere,
   a few here and there,
   some stuck between the couch,
   it started as a big jar for me (Earthen pot Also called Gullak),
   maybe it can for you too..!
9. Have something that saves you from this bad world,
   maybe a habit,
   maybe a vice,
   maybe a thing that you do to keep you alive and functioning in this fast-paced world,
   maybe a person,
   your s/o,
   boyfriend/girlfriend,
   a routine,
   maybe spending a few days with them,
   maybe a solo trip,
   or maybe a thing as simple as a beverage that you saw an ad for,
   or a food that you find appealing,
   wait until you can’t anymore and do it,
   or have it;
   
   Don’t necessarily deny yourself a thing that will help you live another day,
   but don’t jump on the very first moment you have a thought about it…
   
   Think it through…
   
10. All of it might not work for you,
    there are times you have to cut ties,
    even with those who share same blood,
    even those whom you grew up with,
    and spent entire childhood with,
    but,
    when it comes to severing ties,
    remember,
    there is no such thing as losing a vision of self to be there for someone who would show you the gate the very instant,
    they find your worth has been utilized…

These are my certainties,
What are yours…?

Cheers🥂(The fight begins)

Love Waakiye 🤍