A person who sees through you…

Are you a good judge of character?

Hey…

I hope all of you are doing well…

I try to think of this as I am still learning how to be a good judge of how humans respond…

Because if you want to know someone’s character you need to know a bit about them beforehand or have a basic knowledge of how people respond to cues and to other people around them…

Imagine a scenario where you’re on a date with someone and you clearly see them giving a hard time to the waiter by butting in every time and berating them when they aren’t aware of something which they need to confirm with the chef and then they make fun of the person because of the low paying scale of the job that they are doing,

This probably means they haven’t worked hard for their money or will treat you the same once everything shiny fades away…

Another one would be how they talk to the elders like their parents, grandparents or someone older who passes them;

But,

Here in no way I mean you should tolerate whatever they say, you need to have your own opinion and views along with the guidance that they provide because they have a longer experience of the world that you and I live in and it wouldn’t hurt to just hear them out,

Later you can form your own opinion in regard to their or maybe choose the path that is different from what they guided you to,

Ultimately it’s your call…!

Lastly, this is something that I was taught by my late father, imagine you give someone some money and they promise you they will return it to you within a span and they return it partially or a small amount and they try to avoid you after that,

Not taking your calls or even thinking about returning your money,

Now,

The said amount became a life lesson for you and taught you the character of that person too…;

It can be a cheap lesson or an expensive one too but you now already know who not to talk to or associate with anymore…

With that being said,

A new week is upon us and let’s find something that brings us happiness along with the work that we do maybe it’s coffee of the new place or a dish that you want to have…;

Cheers 🥂

Love Waakiye 🤍